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So... About That Essence Picture of The Obamas...

demetria lucas September 9, 2016

 said I wasn’t going to write about it. But I have to. I. Have. To.

On Wednesday evening, I was practicing my ritual of procrastinating by browsing through Instagram. A friend, an Essence editor, posted a new image of the first couple that will run in the upcoming October issue. The Obamas are on the cover.

If you saw the picture, I know you saw … what everyone who saw the photo saw. All over social media, everyone’s talking about first lady Michelle Obama’s, uh, surprise ending. Constantly.

I want to be respectful of my FLOTUS. I do. I do not wish to objectify her. I will not. But it’s pointless to pretend not to see what we saw. And I’m making a public observation because, I mean, it stands out! It sits up! It cannot be missed. It’s the first thing everyone sees who looks at the image.

Case in point: I showed the picture to my husband with no commentary. He laughed.

Husband: That ain’t junk in the trunk. That’s luggage!

Me: That. Is. The. First. Lady.

Husband: She is a woman and I am a man with good vision.

Me: GREG!

Husband: You don’t need 20-20 to see that, though.

I have questions.

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Tags michelle obama, first family, Essence Magazine

Kanye West Actually Does Care About Black Women

demetria lucas September 7, 2016

UPDATE: The Yeezy Season 4 fashion show at Roosevelt just concluded. And Kanye had models of all hues in the show, from racially ambiguous to unquestionably black. Apparently "multi-racial" means "anything but white in the Yeezyverse?  Who knew?

I REALLY thought he wasn't going to have any obviously Black girls. And I called him "an ass" because that's what I thought he was up to. 

He wasn't. So my bad, Yeezy. You're not as far gone as I thought. Thanks for coming thru with the melanin-infused ladies. They were beautiful to see. (Um... no comment on the clothes. I owe you one now, so...)

 

 

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Tags Kanye West, Twitter, Yeezy Season 4, Casting Call, NYFW, Bethann Hardison

7 Arguments People Should Stop Using to Defend Their Favorite Celebs

demetria lucas September 2, 2016

I spend a great deal of my day trying to figure out what to write about for my next story. Luckily for me, there’s rarely a day that passes without a hot-button issue being debated on one of my many social timelines.

Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve spent a great deal of time, perhaps more than usual, “exchanging ideas” about issues surrounding Gabrielle Douglas, Nate Parker, Chris Brown, Colin Kaepernick and more. I’ve noticed some repetitive counterarguments that often derail otherwise substantive conversations. I mean, that is the point, isn’t it?

I rounded up a few of the most frequent (and illogical) ways uncomfortable (or sadistic) commenters ruin productive discussions:

1. “Why now?”

This is the go-to line for Bill Cosby apologists and Parker defenders. They want to know why Cosby’s accusers came forward after decades of silence. Or why Parker’s rape trial is being discussed now.

And I just want to know, “Why not now?” You can’t be charged with certain alleged crimes after a certain amount of time, but we can’t discuss them either, even when the story is current in the news cycle? Even when a celebrity sits for interviews about his misdeeds? Should we all consult our calendars for an undefined expiration date before caring or commenting?

If an alleged victim doesn’t speak up immediately, then she should take it to her grave? Is that how this works? If a heinous crime is alleged to have taken place and there’s been no past accountability, is time a get-out-of-anyone-having-an-opinion free card?

Someone let me know. I’m confused.

2. “But white people allow it/don’t do …”

White people are not the gold standard. I repeat: White people are not the gold standard. That there are moviegoers who turn a blind eye to Woody Allen or Roman Polanski, or separate the man from his work of art, isn’t a valid reason for black people to look past the shenanigans or crimes allegedly or actually committed by another black person. We ain’t gotta “follow the leader.” We can think independently and hold black folk accountable, when necessary.

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Tags celebrities, blog comments, trolling, dont judge, Chris Brown, Nate Parker, Gabrielle Douglas, Bill Cosby, conspiracy theories

Stop Saying Huma Abedin ‘Finally’ Left Her Husband

demetria lucas August 31, 2016

I was however, surprised at the snark thrown Abedin’s way after she announced her departure. Across news sites, headlines announced the Abedin-Weiner split, kept saying Abedin “finally” left. 

From Fox News: “Roasted Weiner: Huma Finally Leaves Horn-Dog Hubby.”

From The Wrap: “Anthony Weiner’s Wife Huma Abedin Finally Leaves Him After Latest Sexting Scandal.”

From LA Times: “Huma Abedin finally left Anthony Weiner. Hold the party streamers ...“

From Vanity Fair: “Huma Abedin Is Finally Separating From Anthony Weiner“

You get the drift. 

The use of “finally” in this context is so judge-y. It implies that Abedin has come to her senses—apparently, sense that she hasn’t been using all along—after a long delay, and that she should have left Weiner ages ago. It implies that speaker would have done differently in Abedin’s shoes. It implies that Abedin has done something wrong by trying to maintain her marriage, despite her husband’s online sexcapades with strangers. 

Think I’m reaching here? While most sites just imply that Abedin screwed up staying, in a NY Daily News article “Finally! What took Huma so long to kick Weiner to the curb?” writer Linda Stati flatly called Abedin a “doormat” and blamed her for Weiner’s escalating behavior. 

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Tags Huma Abdin, Anthony Weiner, infidelity, divorce, politics, political scandal

8 Ways Yoncé Slayed At the 2016 MTV Music Video Awards

demetria lucas August 29, 2016

The 2016 MTV Video Music Awards were supposed to be Rihanna’s night—and it was (sort of). The 28-year-old singerperformed four times throughout the three-hour awards show and received the prestigious Michael Jackson Video Vanguard award, which she claimed, in part, “for black women.” Drake, taking the stage to present her award, admitting that he’s been in love with her since she was 22 and that super awkward kinda-kiss they shared were hard to compete with. 

First there was Teyana Taylor in all her post-baby, snapback body glory, oiled up and channeling West Africa, “Pleasure Principle,” Flashdance, and Rosie Perez in “Do The Right Thing” while she danced her ass off, made out with her fiancée’ Cleveland Cavalier’s Iman Shumpert, and then hung out with some silent lambs in Kanye West’s latest video  “Fade.”

And then? Well then, there was all things Beyoncé. From the red carpet to her epic 16-minute performance of songs from Lemonade, to breaking an MTV record, King Bey showed up and showed out at the MTV Awards as only she can. 

Here are eight ways ‘Yonce gave us life: 

She Broke Madonna’s VMA Record   

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Tags Beyonce, MTV Awards, Formation, Teyana Taylor, Rihanna, Drake

Tamar Braxton's 911 Call Is Not A Joke

demetria lucas August 26, 2016

Earlier this week, Atlanta police received a call about a “domestic dispute” between singer and reality-TV star Tamar Braxton and her husband, Vincent Herbert. Few details are confirmed, but according to the audio of a 911 call that was made publicly available thanks to TMZ, the pair were at the Ritz-Carlton when an argument escalated to Herbert biting his wife’s finger. By the time the police were contacted, Herbert had fled the location in a cab.

Since the incident, the pair has been spotted holding hands while walking through the Los Angeles Airport.

Speculation has run rampant as to the cause of the argument—which, let’s face it, we’ll never know the real truth about, unless reality-TV cameras for Tamar & Vince were rolling and the footage is aired unedited. Current rumors suggest that the dispute may have been over Braxton’s recent decision to take on a new manager, who is replacing her husband. But who knows what the argument was over, and really, why does it matter?

The bottom line is that the argument was severe, Herbert bit his wife and the police were called. This is not a normal couples’ spat. Still, there have been giggles across social media about Herbert’s bizarre action, which sounds right out of the Mike Tyson textbook for crazy. Gossip site Straight From the A joked that Herbert, a plus-size man, was hungry. This is no laughing matter. I mean, the police were called. This isn’t funny. This. Is. Not. OK.

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Tags Tamar Braxton, Vince Herbert, domestic violence, domestic dispute, Stephen A Smith

Why I Just Can't Support 'The Birth of A Nation'

demetria lucas August 26, 2016

In light of the fiasco surrounding Nate Parker, and thus, his upcoming film, The Birth of A Nation in which Parker is the star, producer, director, and co-writer, I’ve been asked several times if I'm going to see the film. 

I've already seen it. And I typically don't go to the theatre to see movies I've already seen at a screening. So to announce, “I am not going to see it!” is sanctimonious and silly. It’s not like I’m sacrificing anything. But I would like to see it again. I want to sit with it and dissect it this time.

That's only part of the reason I haven't joined the unofficial boycott of The Birth of A Nation. The other part? Honestly? I’ve been waiting for Nate Parker to pull his sh—together and fix this mess. It’s been two weeks since the story of his 1999 rape charges surfaced in national publications, and he hasn’t done that yet. As such, I still have moral conflict about going to the theatre. Unless that's resolved, I'm sitting this one out. There are too many things worthy of a having a moral conflict over. A movie— I don’t care who it’s about or how good it is— isn’t one of them. 

I want to explain my decision. Nate Parker did a horrible thing many, many years ago. And after he was in the middle of a media storm resulting from the interviews he did with Variety and Deadline addressing his 1999 rape accusations, he said as much. 

“There are things more important than the law” Parker wrote in a Facebook statusupdate last week. “There is morality; no one who calls himself a man of faith should even be in that situation… I look back on that time as a teenager and can say without hesitation that I should have used more wisdom.”

My problem with Parker is less about his past that cannot be changed and more about his recent interviews with Variety and Deadline where he sounded like a man who had not properly reflected upon his moral shortcomings. Addressing his 1999 rape accusations, which most people didn’t know about, he came across so smug, so dismissive, so self-centered as if he’s learned nothing about rape, consent, accountability, the value of women he isn’t related to, or even how to make a decent apology. I read those interviews and I felt like that Tyra clip from ANTM where she was yelling at the girl, "I was rooting for you! We were all rooting for you! How dare you!"

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Tags Nate Parker, The Birth of A Nation, rape

Him: "I Learned Pretty Quickly That "No" Didn't Mean "Stop"

demetria lucas August 23, 2016

(As part of my ongoing self-torture,) I asked a bunch of guys to share their thoughts with me about "the Nate Parker fiasco".  I didn't tell them what to talk about, just through out a general, "What do you think about the Nate Parker fiasco?" and let them answer. (You might have caught the first post in that series here. And my response to that here.) 

This was the first conversation I tried out. I originally posted it on my Facebook page last week.  

*TRIGGER WARNING* 

II texted a close guy friend to get his POV about Nate Parker. He doesn't do social media, really. So he's out of the loop on a lot of the discussions. I asked him about it on Wednesday, and he needed a night to go catch up. He wasn't even sure who Nate Parker was.

He got back to me on Thursday. He had no commentary on Parker. But he did share a few stories with me. 

In one, he detailed a time in college that he and two of his friends were in a hotel room drinking. His boy's GF was there and she brought a girlfriend. The guy and his girl go for a walk, leaving my friend and another guy alone with the girl.

The girl seemed more interested in the second guy than my friend, so my friend rolls over and tries to go to sleep. He stirs at some point, and hears the girl saying, "no, no, no" just above a whisper. He looks over and sees the guy is on top of her and she's not pushing him off, but she is saying "no" again. Guy isn't stopping. He continues and they have sex.

I asked my friend what he did. He said "nothing.'

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Tags Nate Parker, rape, sexual assault

"The person they desire becomes the person they also fear."

demetria lucas August 22, 2016

Soo…. 

My inbox is full of people asking some version of “So what do YOU think about what your friend said?” If you missed it, he said THIS. 

I didn’t give my opinion in the original post because, hell, I didn’t want to. I just wanted folks to read it and have the same "WTF?" reaction I did hearing it last week.  Maybe you’re well versed in that kind of perspective and those kinds of escapades. I was not. I was shocked. 

But I’ve caught a bit of flack for not giving context, and my lack of a public opinion about what my friend said has led folks to just lob any stupid thing and assign it to me.  

If they asked, I would have answered. Just like I’m answering the people who actually did ask. 

But first, some context:  

I’ve spent the last week or so having discussions online about what I’ve come to call “the Nate Parker fiasco”, mostly on Facebook and Instagram. You can read them HERE and HERE and also HERE. I also published a story on my site that ran on HuffPo about my conflicted feelings about supporting Parker now, because of his responses to said fiasco in a series of recent interviews with Deadline and Variety. (The Hoteps came out full throttle for me over that one.) 

There were men and women participating in the discussions and no matter which aspect of the case we discussed there was a VAST difference in how most men and most women perceived the information. In those particular discussions, most—but not all—women thought Parker, who was exonerated, committed rape. Most—but not all—of the men adamantly defended Parker. We argued for days, and got frustrated and angry and exhausted. At one point I declared that most of my male followers sounded like “latent rapists” for all the meandering twists of logic they were making to excuse or defend Parker. 

After that, I took a step back. I really wanted to understand the male POV here. In my most frustrated moments, I wish I could dismiss the way guys think, but they are the other half of the population. If women-folk have any intent of getting along with them, it might be helpful to understand where they’re coming from. I also thought it might be better to engage when I wasn’t combative. That had become impossible with the guys online. 

 

I called up some male friends I know pretty well and asked them about Nate Parker. The thought was that these were men in my circle who I trust and they would give me a breakdown of their thoughts that wasn’t about posturing for other men in the forum or saying sassy ish for RTs and likes. They were honest. Too honest for my comfort sometimes. I thought I was prepared after battling with men online. 

No. I was not.

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Tags nate parker, consensual sex, rape, college

Him: "You’re looking at it like a black girl..."

demetria lucas August 20, 2016

“You’re not gonna get it,” he says. “Cause you’re looking at it like a black girl. White girls are entirely different.”

“He” is a Black man in his thirties, who was a high school and college athlete of a popular sport. He’s also someone I've known for years but just recently started to have real conversations with. We don’t talk about personal ish often, but when we talk we never talk about surface sh--.

We also “speak the same language”, in that, everything is a story. We don’t tell you, as much as we’ll share a story about what happened and you can interpret what you will about it, good or bad.

In light of the Nate Parker fall out-- and the vastly different reactions by some women versus some men--  I asked several male friends for their take. This is one of many. 

I asked this friend to weigh in on Thursday. He didn’t know who Parker was. Sometimes I forget that everyone doesn’t blog/freelance, live online and have a 100 Google alerts and “breaking news” alerts sent to their phone daily.

I break down the gist of the case for him. The quick version and just the overall facts that we all agree on. He says he will take a look at the articles and read the transcripts and get back to me with an informed answer, but if he had to say something now, it would be…

“Hold up,” he asks. “She was white or black?

Me: “Why does it matter?”

Him: “It matters.”

Me: “She was white.”

Him: “That’s what I thought. Without reading the transcript. I’m going with not rape.”

Me: “Ok. Why?”

And this is how we get to: “You’re not gonna get it. Cause you’re looking at it like a black girl. White girls are entirely different.”

I present his thoughts with no commentary: 

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Tags Nate Parker, rape, sexual assault, college

We Need to Talk About Nate Parker's Creepy Interview About His Past Rape Charge, Ya'll....

demetria lucas August 15, 2016

The Birth of A Nation debuts in theatres Oct. 7, which is why Parker sat down with Variety for an exclusive interview about some troublesome sh—now, two months before the press run to promote the film really revs up. In 1999, as a student at Penn State University, Parker and his roommate Jean Celestin— the co-writers “The Birth of a Nation”— were charged with raping an unconscious 20-year-old female student while she visited their apartment. 

Parker was exonerated, mostly because he'd had previous consensual sex with the woman in question, as if a "yes" once (or however many times) is a "yes" forever. Celestin was convicted of rape and served six months in jail.  According to the Variety article, he appealed the verdict, and a second trial was thrown out because the victim didn’t want to testify again. Variety notes that the woman sued the university and received a $17,500 settlement. 

The Variety interview is creepy as f--k. Parker refers to the rape accusation/trial as "a very painful moment in my life". He cites the obstacles he's had in his life: "I grew up very poor. My father passed away. There are so many things that happened." He adds, that he is "an advocate of justice. I'm an older man now. I've matured a lot." He also mentions his wife and five daughters. Twice. Finally he says, "I have since moved on."

 

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Tags Nate Parker, Birth of A Nation, rape, Nat Turner

Gabby Douglas Only Has 1 Job—and It Isn’t to Fix Her Hair

demetria lucas August 10, 2016

Douglas has one job right now: to physically perform to the best of her ability. And she’s doing that. When it comes to Gabby Douglas, this—and her continued good health—are all that matter. Even if some misguided folk think otherwise.

Just as in 2012, a small but vocal contingent have emerged to focus on dumb s–t when it comes to Douglas. Again, they are a minority of viewers, but their incessant hating has caught the attention of Essence, ESPN and Teen Vogue, all of whom have reported on the latest (and stupid) backlash about Douglas’ hair.

Although she is an athlete in the midst of competition, this misguided group wants to know why Douglas’ edges ain’t laid right, as if that actually matters. As if laid edges will put some extra height on her tumbles. As if a well-brushed ponytail will prevent a pulled muscle. As if using hair gel raises the score of her performance by a tenth of a point.

“Social media author” Terez Baskin broke down the hair naysayers’ point of view in a clickbait blog post, “Why Gabby Douglas’ Hair Should Matter to You.” In short, Baskin argued that the state of Douglas’ hair was a reflection of her poor self-care and that black girls may have trouble admiring Douglas because her hair ain’t right. It was respectability politics run amok, but disguised as some sort of “I just want the best for her.”

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Tags Gabby Douglas, Olympics, Rio 2016

Ciara's Engagement and the Deepest Fears of FuccBois

demetria lucas March 15, 2016

With a genuine interest, I’m trying to figure out what Ciara did wrong to attract so much hatred. She became a mom with a man she planned to marry. It didn’t work out. She moves on, even made a song about it. And like she sang she would, she found a man who seems to adore her and treats her kid well. Isn’t that what a responsible, dating mother is supposed to do? Or was she not supposed to date at all because “good” mothers don’t date? Was she supposed to have a man in her life who didn’t treat her and her child well? Oh. I got it. She was supposed to stay tethered to a dysfunctional man to keep her family intact.   

In what world?

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In Relationships, Pop Culture Tags Ciara, Russell Wilson, engagements, marriage, fuccbois

Sexism Is Not the Main Reason Beyoncé Was Criticized and Kendrick Lamar Wasn’t

demetria lucas February 18, 2016

It’s been almost a full three days since Kendrick Lamar unleashed holy blackness on the Grammy stage, performing “The Blacker the Berry,” “Alright” and a verse from an untitled song that didn’t make the final cut of his Grammy-winning album, To Pimp a Butterfly. It was a powerful, defiant statement about the state of black America, one that, if we must rate “wokeness,” was on par with or even a step beyond Beyoncé’s widely viewed and much criticized Super Bowl performance.

In the following days, the articles about Lamar’s performance have been many, but as writer LaSha notes over at Salon, he has been widely praised. Despite the near-identical themes of their performances, the constructive critiques and think pieces for Lamar are nowhere near the number—nor are they written with the same vitriol—dedicated to Beyoncé’s video, song and performance of “Formation.” LaSha blames sexism.

“Since his and Beyoncé’s performances carried nearly identical messages, this morning, I awaited the think pieces analyzing the Compton-bred lyricist’s exploitation of black resistance on music’s biggest televised stage,” LaSha writes. “I have yet to see one among the dozens praising him.”

She adds, “I suppose waiting for the critiques of Kendrick’s performance was pure cynicism. Experience taught me long ago that black women and black men are held to different and unequal standards in all things, even by each other.”

In fairness, there is absolutely some sexism at play. LaSha rightfully assesses that Beyoncé’s attire of a leotard and tights during her Super Bowl performance is unfairly used to discredit her message. She points out, “Black men, after all, whether in Levi’s or Kente cloth, can still declare their allegiance to blackness no matter how they’re dressed.”

And she notes that although both Lamar and Beyoncé infuse their black-empowerment messages with lines about sex, no one has raised a brow about Lamar doing so, despite perceiving those same ideas as a strike, so to speak, against Beyoncé. That men face no penalty for expressing sexual desire, while women are shamed, is blatant sexism.

So yes, there is sexism at play in the different responses to Lamar’s and Beyoncé’s performances.

While it may be part of the reason that think pieces condemning Lamar are in short supply, sexism is not the core reason as LaSha asserts. There are other major factors to take into consideration that explain the lack of overanalysis about Lamar’s performance and the abundance of such about Beyoncé.

For starters, Beyoncé is a much bigger star than Lamar. She’s naturally going to garner more interest and more clickbait articles. She has a much longer musical history, one mostly devoid of explicit political statements about black pride or power. And although she’s never shied away from being black (even the L’Oreal commercial, in which she added French and Creole to her ethnic identity, also mentioned African American), she hasn’t come up with anything that’s even a roundabout way of saying, essentially, that Black Lives Matter the way she does in “Formation.”

Beyoncé’s new stance is, well, new. It’s why nonblack people are freaking out, as encapsulated in a hilarious Saturday Night Live segment, “The Day Beyoncé Turned Black.”

I don’t agree with the accusation that Beyoncé is “exploiting black resistance,” but I do understand the conspiracy theory behind it. It’s kinda cool to be “woke” right now, and Beyoncé has pulled a 180 at just the right time. Is she conscious or is her messaging convenient, just a constructed way to reinvent and engage black consumers? It’s a valid question.

There are also valid reasons—not sexism—that the same is not asked about Lamar.

His first major-label release was in 2012. Good Kid, M.A.A.D. City was about growing up in Compton, Calif., one young black man’s stories used to make a larger statement about growing up black and male in America. His second album, To Pimp a Butterfly, used similar themes with a wider scope. Perhaps the best-known song from that release before the Grammys was “Alright,” which was unofficially adopted as the theme song for Black Lives Matter.

Lamar taking to the Grammy stage shuffling in chains, then performing in front of a bonfire with African dancers and then flashing an outline of Africa with “Compton” stamped in the middle, isn’t a vast departure from what listeners of his music, or viewers of other awards shows, expect from Lamar. At last year’s BET Awards, I sat in the audience watching him perform “Alright” while he stood on top of a battered cop car as a giant, tattered American flag waved in the background. It was a great performance.

His Grammy show was even better, a defining moment, but it wasn’t Lamar making a departure; it was Lamar at his best doing what he’s been doing all along, this time before a mainstream audience. It’s hard to question someone about being exploitative who has a history—even if short—of doing the same thing in improved ways.

Read the full story on The Root 

Tags Kendrick Lamar, Beyonce, Super Bowl, Fomration

Stop Shaming Women for Wanting Attractive Men

demetria lucas February 12, 2016

There’s a video clip from Steve Harvey’s talk show making the rounds on Facebook. It’s being used as Exhibit Z—because A through Y have already been done—about why so many women, black women in particular, are single.

Sigh.

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In Relationships Tags Steve Harvey

Film still from Nate Parker's The Birth of A Nation"

Why America Needs More Films About Slavery

demetria lucas January 28, 2016

It seems for every person like me, who anticipates showing up to a Magic Johnson theater (because you know they’re showing it) on opening night, there’s another person asking, “Really? Another slave film?”

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In Pop Culture Tags The Birth of A Nation, Nat Turner, Nate Parker, Sundance, 12 Years A Slave, slavery

Aunt Viv’s Video Rant Misses the Point About #OscarsSoWhite

demetria lucas January 19, 2016

Martin Luther King Jr. Day turned out to be quite eventful for Hollywood. Jada Pinkett Smith announced via video that she would be boycotting this year’s Academy Awards because of the exclusion of black performances in the four major acting categories. This is the second year in a row that black actors have been shut out.

Spike Lee, who received an honorary Oscar at last year’s Governors Awards, also announced on Facebook that he and his wife, Tonya Lewis Lee, would be skipping the festivities, too.

To me it seemed like an appropriate response to the general outrage about blacks being excluded—again—as documented in the #OscarsSoWhite hashtag that populated Twitter the day the nominees were announced.

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In Pop Culture Tags Aunt Viv, Janet Hubert, Jada Pinkett Smith, Will Smith, Academy Awards, Spike Lee, #oscarssowhite

Um.... WTF? 

Sanitized Children's Book Teaches Kids About "Happy" Enslaved People and "Respectful" Masters

demetria lucas January 17, 2016

I learned about Scholastic’s new children’s book, A Birthday Cake for George Washington,when a friend emailed me on Friday to ask, “Uh … have you seen this [expletive]?” Her note was accompanied by the book’s back cover, which depicted an illustration of a smiling enslaved man and child, accompanied by their beaming master—America’s first president, George Washington. Washington had his arm around the enslaved man’s shoulder like they were bros instead of oppressor and oppressed. 

My knee-jerk reaction was a string of expletives as I tried to process this level of disrespect. Can you imagine a modern-day American publisher pushing a book about a cheery Jewish father and daughter on a trivial mission to bake a cake for the birthday of, say, an SS guard at Auschwitz? Can you picture a children’s book depicting a Jewish dad and child at a concentration camp snuggled up and cozy with Hitler?

Never! So why is it somehow OK to show enslaved black folks practically cuddling with their oppressors?

I woosahed. I had to be misunderstanding. Scholastic is a respected children’s book publisher. They deserved the benefit of the doubt. This book couldn’t be what I was imagining. There had to be levels, satire … something I wasn’t getting.  

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Tags A Birthday Cake for George Washington, Scholastic, children's book, slavery

Some People Just Don't Understand #BlackGirlMagic

demetria lucas January 14, 2016

On Wednesday, Elle published an essay by Linda Chavers lamenting the use of the popular phrase “Black Girl Magic.” Chavers’ essay was prompted by Essence magazine’s using the catchphrase for female black excellence on its February cover issues.

“There’s something else that rubs me the wrong way about the phrase ‘black girl magic,’" writes Chavers. “The ‘strong, black woman’ archetype, which also includes the mourning black woman who suffers in silence, is the idea that we can survive it all, that we can withstand it. That we are, in fact, superhuman. Black girl magic sounds to me like just another way of saying the same thing, and it is smothering and stunting. It is, above all, constricting rather than freeing.”

Chavers surmises, “Black girl magic suggests we are, again, something other than human.”

Ummmmm.

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Tags Black Girl Magic, CaShawn Thompson, Beverly Bond, Michaela angela Davis

Christine Beatty Hopes Reality-TV Will Help Her Escape Shadow of Sexting Scandal

demetria lucas January 8, 2016

Before 2008, Christine Beatty, as the chief of staff to Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick, was a celebrated strategist with a promising future in politics. That changed the morning the Detroit Free Press published the private, intimate text messages that Beatty and Kilpatrick exchanged on their government-issued phones during their six-year extramarital affair.

The fallout was brutal. The texts proved that Beatty had once lied under oath by denying her affair with Kilpatrick. Beatty, a mother, was sentenced to 90 days in jail. In addition, she was mercilessly roasted in the press and by the public. And after the media smoke cleared and people moved on to drag someone else, Beatty still found herself branded with a scarlet A.

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Tags Christine Beatty, Scandal, Detroit, Kwame Kilpatrick, The Root
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