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Ciara's Engagement and the Deepest Fears of FuccBois

demetria lucas March 15, 2016

With a genuine interest, I’m trying to figure out what Ciara did wrong to attract so much hatred. She became a mom with a man she planned to marry. It didn’t work out. She moves on, even made a song about it. And like she sang she would, she found a man who seems to adore her and treats her kid well. Isn’t that what a responsible, dating mother is supposed to do? Or was she not supposed to date at all because “good” mothers don’t date? Was she supposed to have a man in her life who didn’t treat her and her child well? Oh. I got it. She was supposed to stay tethered to a dysfunctional man to keep her family intact.   

In what world?

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In Relationships, Pop Culture Tags Ciara, Russell Wilson, engagements, marriage, fuccbois

Stop Shaming Women for Wanting Attractive Men

demetria lucas February 12, 2016

There’s a video clip from Steve Harvey’s talk show making the rounds on Facebook. It’s being used as Exhibit Z—because A through Y have already been done—about why so many women, black women in particular, are single.

Sigh.

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In Relationships Tags Steve Harvey

Essence: Happily Single For 2016? 4 Things to Change Your Year

demetria lucas January 5, 2016

Contrary to popular belief, being single can be fabulous and often even intentional for some. Women looking to live their best single lives turn to relationship expert and author Demetria Lucas D’Oyley to guide them along the way. When it comes to matters of the heart, her straightforward brand of free-flowing dating advice always hits home,

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In Relationships Tags Essence, dating, relationships, single, dontwasteyourpretty, abelleinbrooklyn, advice

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