Dear Demetria: 

"Been with shawty bout a year and some change and she don't give head. We living together now and things need to change. She don't cook, clean, don't do no woman stuff. If she not taking care of the house she need to at least take care of my needs right? She not trying to compromise."

You knew she didn't provide oral blessings when you moved in together, and you did that anyway. That's on you, homie. Everybody in the house needs to cook and clean and contribute to the upkeep of the home, that means you too. Are you doing your portion?

Also, what's the full story? I feel like I've been reading half stories all night. The oral thing is what it is. You knew she didn't do it, and because she's not cooking or cleaning doesn't mean you're entitled to the kind of sex that you desire. They're separate things and you gotta get off that. Is it all possible that her not cooking/cleaning is a passive aggressive response to you actually saying some wild ish to her like she needs to do oral or else? How did she keep her own home before ya'll moved in together?"

Follow up: 

Dear Demetria: 

That's whats trip. Her house use to be spotless. She used to cook all the time. Now all she does is use that mouth to fuss. She treats me like I am her b-tch instead of the other way around. Relationships is give and take. I do my part I make sure to take out the trash ,wash and maintain the cars,and fix things round the house. She needs to cook, clean and cater to her man. I didn't say act like it's the 50s, but come on, make your man feel like a man sometimes. I am not working right now, so I make sure my step son gets to school and peewee practice everyday plus help him with homework.